The biggest Dukh of being in Sansar is interdependence and bondage.
We have created a complex cocoon called Sansar, where we are bound to each other in one way or the other, without even realizing it.
Our desires for others – objects, people, situations- our dependence on THEM to make US happy and comfortable.
If we don’t have them, we are unhappy and uncomfortable.
We just need them.
We can’t do without them.
We are so blinded by this borrowed happiness, borrowed comfort that we accept this, blindly.
Even for traveling on a spiritual path within, we need others’ company.
Temples churches and spiritual centers are crowded, but we won’t see even a single person sitting under a tree meditating, seeking the freedom within.
Interdependence is an addiction, and it is not taking us anywhere.
Wanting, needing, someone or something is a beggarship, and we are somehow OK with that.
We come into this world, hold each other’s hands for a while, never take a plunge into the vast ocean of consciousness within, and leave.
There is free life flowing within, free from all our bondages, desires, and all the complexities of our minds, only waiting to be discovered.
It will be a shame to end the life without reaching it.
Go solitary, face the reality of the mind, walk away from it by meditating, and enjoy the freedom that ensues.